Why San Diego is Home to the Best Wedding Venues

 

Planning to say ‘I do’ in San Diego? Well, you’re in for a treat!  Whether you’re a local looking to tie the knot or planning a destination wedding, San Diego offers a diverse selection of wedding venues, accommodating various styles and budgets. From picturesque beachfront locations to charming rustic wineries and opulent estates, San Diego has something to suit every couple’s unique vision. What’s more, the city’s year-round pleasant climate ensures that your special day will be filled with plenty of sunshine and the perfect backdrop making it an ideal choice for your wedding celebration.

In this guide, we’ll explore the best San Diego wedding venues. With years of experience as a San Diego wedding photographer, having worked in numerous venues across the city, I bring a unique perspective to the table. This is by no means an exhaustive list, but it should give you a good head start in your search for the ideal setting for your special day. Best of luck in your search for the best San Diego wedding venue!

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 Best Beach or Waterfront Wedding Venues

 

Bali High Restaurant 

 

Bali Hai, located on Shelter Island has a tropical vibe with breathtaking views of the San Diego Bay and downtown skyline.  Known for its delectable Polynesian cuisine and irresistible Mai-tais, choosing this venue based on its wedding buffet alone is a no-brainer.

One of the perks here is that your ceremony and reception are in close proximity for maximum convenience. But what truly sets this place apart is its very own dock. Envision this: arriving and departing in your own boat if you’re a boating enthusiast. Now, that’s what I call a grand exit! And don’t forget the cozy firepit where your guests can gather and soak in the warm ambiance.

Amenities:  ceremony area, indoor, outdoor, and covered outdoor event space

Guest capacity:  small to medium size weddings (up to 200)

Starting Cost:  $$ Affordable

 

Marina Village

 

This venue offers not one, but two captivating outdoor ceremony sites, both overlooking the picturesque marina. Inside, you’ll discover a variety of unique banquet rooms, each with its distinct charm—crystal chandeliers and vaulted ceilings add an elegant touch. What makes this venue stand out is the freedom it grants you once you’ve booked an event space. It’s a blank canvas, where you can make all your Pinterest dreams come true! Flexibility is key here—they welcome your choice of linens, alcohol selection, and outside vendors while providing essentials like the ceremony arch, tables, and chairs.

But what I adore most about this place is that despite its affordability, it offers million-dollar views of the marina, especially during sunset—a priceless backdrop for your celebration. Plus, the party can continue until midnight, ensuring that your special day goes on without a hitch. And to make things even better, there’s ample parking for your guests’ convenience.  If that’s not reason enough to love this exceptional venue, check out my blog post on the 5 Reasons Why Brides Love Marina Village. There, you’ll find even more insights into what makes it a top choice for couples seeking the perfect wedding setting

Amenities: ceremony area, indoor and outdoor event space

Guest capacity:  small to large size weddings (300+)

Starting cost:  $$ Affordable

Martin Johnson House

 

This venue is an absolute hidden gem here in San Diego. If you’re seeking an affordable outdoor setting that exudes an intimate backyard atmosphere while offering stunning ocean views, then the Martin Johnson House should be at the top of your list. And hey, did I mention it’s budget-friendly? What’s more, it’s a paradise for photo opportunities.

Stealing a few minutes away at cocktail hour to capture some beautiful moments on the beach is a must.  Also, be sure to explore the pedestrian bridge and the vantage point that offers a stunning view of Scripps Pier and the La Jolla coastline. This place has it all!

Amenities: ceremony area, outdoor event space

Guest Capacity: small to medium size weddings (up to 130)

Starting Cost:  $$ Affordable

Scripps Seaside Forum

 

It’s like having your own private backyard beach wedding, complete with award-winning architecture and a spectacular coastal view.  In fact, the ocean is literally steps away!  At Scripps Seaside Forum, your guests will relish the sunset during cocktail hour, adding to the magic of your day.

As part of the Scripps Institution of Oceanography at UC San Diego, this venue is so sought after that booking more than a year in advance is a must.  And while parking can be a bit challenging, you have the option to reserve parking spaces for your guests at an additional cost, ensuring their convenience on your special day.

Amenities: ceremony space, indoor and outdoor event space

Guests capacity:  small to medium size weddings (up to 200)

Starting cost:  $$ Affordable

Thursday Club

 

They had me at ocean venue without the sand! Tucked away in the serene residential neighborhood of Pt. Loma, The Thursday Club is actually a banquet hall that exudes historical charm, with its lofty ceilings, antique chandeliers, and rich wood floors. Guests will delight in the intimate garden and balcony, perfect for savoring ocean views or enjoying a sunset during cocktail hour.

In my humble opinion, the ideal time to exchange vows here is in March when the garden bursts to life with vibrant spring flowers. There’s an abundance of free parking, and if you’re feeling adventurous, the iconic Sunset Cliffs are just minutes away, offering a stunning backdrop for epic bride and groom portraits. And, by the way, you don’t have to limit your “I Dos” to Thursday—it’s your day, after all!

Amenities:  ceremony space, indoor event space

Guest Capacity: small to medium size weddings (up to 150)

Starting Cost: $$ Affordable

Tom Ham’s Lighthouse

 

Wow your guests with spectacular views of the San Diego Bay and skyline at Tom Ham’s Lighthouse.  Picture this: thank you cards featuring your guests with the stunning harbor as their backdrop – pure perfection!  This venue has culinary offerings that take wedding fare to a whole new level.  With its iconic arch providing a ready-made ceremony site, all-inclusive packages, and ample free parking, your wedding planning just got a whole lot easier!  And here’s the best part, it’s surprisingly affordable!

Amenities: ceremony area, indoor event space

Guests capacity:  small to medium size weddings (up to 230)

Starting cost:  $$ Affordable

 

Best Hotel and Resort Wedding Venues

 

Hotel Del Coronado

 

Step into a world of timeless elegance at this historic and iconic venue, overflowing with classic charm. Whether your heart is set on a beachfront ceremony, a lush lawn exchange of vows, an enchanting garden celebration, or a grand ballroom reception, Hotel Del Coronado has every option to fulfill your dreams. This place exudes of old Hollywood glamour and is a hot pick for epic destination wedding locations. And when it comes to the food, it’s one of the top venues for wedding cuisine in my book.

Amenities: ceremony area, outdoor and indoor event space

Guest Capacity: Any size your heart desires

Starting Cost:  $$$ Moderately Priced

Catamaran Resort and Spa

 

This tropical beachfront oasis, nestled in the heart of Mission Bay, offers the perfect backdrop for your vows. Envision exchanging your promises on a pristine white sandy beach, with breathtaking panoramic views of the bay as your witness. Additionally, there’s a lush tropical garden adorned with koi ponds, exotic flora, and some charmingly colorful talking birds. To add to the enchantment, an indoor water fountain sets a soothing ambiance, creating an oasis of tranquility.

If your heart yearns for the beach and a touch of Hawaiian paradise, I dare say, Catamaran Resort & Spa is as close as you’ll come to it in San Diego.

Amenities: indoor and outdoor event space

Guest Capacity: Up to 300

Starting Cost:  $$$ Moderate

La Valencia Hotel

 

There are countless reasons La Valencia Hotel stands out as one of the premier choices among the best wedding venues in San Diego.  You’ll fall in love with this iconic hotel, affectionately known as the ‘pink lady’ by La Jolla locals. It exudes the timeless glamour of old Hollywood and boasts a rich historical charm. Saying your vows amidst the stunning Spanish architecture, with sweeping views of the Pacific Ocean as your backdrop, is a dream come true. The hotel’s innate beauty means you won’t need to add much decoration—it’s already a picture-perfect setting.

Prepare for your guests to rave about the exceptional cuisine; it’s sure to impress even the most discerning food enthusiasts. The ballroom, with its marbled checkered floors, sets a romantic and classy vibe that’s simply enchanting. And don’t forget about the spacious bridal suite, perfect for getting ready in style.

What’s more, your guests will adore staying at this boutique hotel, thanks to its exceptional service and inviting ambiance. It’s an ideal spot for a post-wedding brunch with your loved ones. You might even want to consider staying here for your honeymoon or returning for a memorable anniversary celebration.

Amenities: indoor and outdoor event space

Guests capacity:  small to medium size weddings (up to 150)

Starting cost:  $$$ Moderately Priced

Rancho Bernardo Inn 

 

A wonderful option for couples in search of refined elegance in a serene and laid-back atmosphere. Elegant ballrooms, panoramic golf course views, and lush gardens adorned with white roses, ancient olive trees, and Spanish-style courtyards.  Can you envision a more romantic setting?

From a photographer’s perspective, this location is a dream come true, offering an array of enchanting backdrops for capturing the most beautiful moments of your special day.  And let’s not forget about the award-winning cuisine that’ll add an exquisite touch to your celebration.  Of course, the ambiance is just as dreamy as you would expect. It’s a perfect blend of tranquility and sophistication, creating the ultimate atmosphere for your wedding. Every moment here will feel like magic, trust me.

And the best part? It’s an excellent choice for destination weddings.  Rest assured, your guests will fall in love with Rancho Bernardo Inn too.

Amenities: ceremony area, indoor and outdoor event space

Guests Capacity: Small to large (300+)

Starting Cost:  $$$ Moderately priced

 Best Private Estate or Historic Wedding Venues

Darlington House

 

Nestled in the heart of La Jolla, the Darlington House is a truly unique historical gem that exudes old California charm and abundant character. Step into a world of sophistication as you explore this exquisite venue adorned with sophisticated furnishings and timeless design elements influenced by the owner’s worldly travels.

One of the remarkable features of the Darlington House is its innate beauty, requiring minimal decoration or florals. Ornate wooden doors, stained glass windows, marble columns and vintage tiles adorn the space, creating a captivating backdrop for your wedding. The bridal suite offers an elegant oasis for pre-ceremony preparations.  As you explore the venue, you’ll discover multiple courtyards, perfect for mingling and celebrating. When illuminated with market lights, these courtyards transform into enchanting spaces for your evening festivities.

What sets the Darlington House apart is its noble mission as a non-profit organization. The venue utilizes its fees to provide housing for low-income seniors, making your celebration even more meaningful.

And here’s the best part for your photos: while other venues might make it tricky to find a shaded spot for first-look portraits, that’s not the case here. There’s a cozy parlor and library, ideal for indoor portraits. Then, when it’s cocktail hour, you’re just a short 3-minute drive from Windansea Beach, which is simply gorgeous for some golden hour photos. Your wedding album will have a fantastic variety of shots!

In essence, the Darlington House is a wedding venue that effortlessly combines history, elegance, and a touch of worldly charm.  It’s a unique spot where you can celebrate in style while making a positive impact on the community.

Amenities: ceremony area, indoor and outdoor event space

Guests Capacity: Small to Medium (Up to 200)

Starting Cost:  $$$ Moderately Priced

Grand Tradition Estate and Gardens

 

Fallbrook’s best-kept secret. From the moment you set foot on the grounds, you’ll be captivated by its charm. It’s a peaceful and private oasis, offering a variety of enchanting settings for your special day. You can opt for the elegant mansion with its crystal chandeliers, opulent furnishings, and manicured lawns. Every time I think of it, I imagine Mary Poppins and Burt taking a leisurely stroll along the heart-shaped lake—a true fairytale setting. Alternatively, there’s the secluded arbor terrace, a tropical paradise adorned with lush greenery, luxurious gardens, and majestic waterfalls.

With 37 years of experience in hosting weddings, Grand Tradition has truly mastered the art. And, let’s be honest, besides the countless opportunities for breathtaking wedding photos on the grounds, my absolute favorite thing about this venue is the delectable prime rib buffet. Not to mention, the staff is incredibly accommodating, ensuring your day is as perfect as you’ve always envisioned.

Amenities: ceremony area, indoor and covered outdoor event space

Guests Capacity: Medium to Large (Up to 300 guests)

Starting Cost:  $$ Affordable

Green Gables Estate

 

When it comes to wedding venues, this place is simply extraordinary. It is a photographer’s dream, where every corner offers a magical setting for capturing beautiful moments. You’ll notice it bears an ambiance reminiscent of Twin Oaks Estate featuring ivy-colored arbors, a charming rose garden and enchanting twinkle lights.  That’s no coincidence- it’s the sister venue, with the added advantage of accommodating larger guest lists.  And so, if you’re in pursuit of a romantic and enchanting atmosphere, complete with an eclectic blend of rustic and French country furnishings, deciding between these two venues may prove to be a delightful dilemma.

But here’s the icing on the wedding cake:  both venues offer an exceptional perk that sets them apart.  A generous time allocation of 10.5 hrs for your special day, far surpassing the typical 7 hrs provided by most venues.  The extended timeframe allows you to savor every precious moment.  Whether it’s indulging in the exquisite bridal parlor or enjoying the groom’s vintage speakeasy before the ceremony, your wedding experience at Green Gables Estate will be absolutely exceptional.

Amenities: ceremony area, outdoor and covered outdoor event space

Guests Capacity: Medium to Large (300+)

Starting Cost:  $$ Affordable

Mt. Woodson Castle

 

An enchanting historical castle straight out of a fairytale, exuding rustic charm and surrounded by majestic oak trees. I’ve heard that the staff at Personal Touch will make you feel like a princess, and believe me, this place is where all of your wedding dreams will come true.  From a photographer’s vantage point, there are no bad angles here!  If you were to ask me which ceremony site to choose, I’d wholeheartedly recommend the oak tree ceremony site. I’m always in awe of the light here at sunset.  Mt. Woodson Castle is nothing short of magical!

Amenities: ceremony area, indoor and outdoor event space

Guests Capacity: Medium to large sized weddings 300+

Starting Cost:  $$ Affordable

Twin Oaks Estate 

 

What do I adore about Twin Oaks Estate?  Well, where do I begin?  When it comes to wedding venues, this place is simply extraordinary. From the moment you step foot here, you’ll feel like you stepped into a hidden enchanted garden, a vintage gem like no other. The gardens exude an undeniable charm with their twinkling rose arbors and soothing waterfall, offering endless opportunities for capturing stunning wedding photographs. What I love most about this place is its small and intimate atmosphere. Additionally, your getting ready photos will stand out because you’ll have access to the on-site salon and bridal parlor, which is actually a historic schoolhouse.  This venue is a top pick among San Diego’s best wedding venues.!

Amenities: ceremony area, outdoor and covered outdoor event space

Guests Capacity: Small to Medium (Up to 300)

Starting Cost:  $$ Affordable

Best Industrial Wedding Venues

Brick

 

Industrial enthusiasts will find Brick, located in historic Liberty Station, to be one of the best San Diego wedding venues.  There are so many reasons to love this unique space, even if the name doesn’t quite capture its charm. Imagine a cool, industrial-chic warehouse vibe with tall open ceilings, rustic brick walls that add character, and tons of natural light flooding in through multiple windows.

And here’s the best part – you can rent it for a whopping 24 hours, with no noise restrictions or curfew. Plus, it’s pet-friendly, so your furry buddy can celebrate with you! This place is your blank slate, where you can turn your wedding vision into reality. From the decorations to the libations, to choosing your favorite vendors, you’ve got the creative reins to make it uniquely yours.

Additionally, you’ll be happy to know there’s plenty of parking, so your guests won’t have to worry about finding a spot. Since it’s pretty close to the airport, it’ll be super convenient for your out-of-town guests. Talk about a win-win for everyone!

Amenities: ceremony area, indoor and outdoor event space

Guests Capacity: Small to medium (Up to 220)

Starting Cost:  $$ Affordable

Best Unique Wedding Venues

Japanese Friendship Garden

 

Also located in Balboa Park, the Japanese Friendship Garden offers sprawling gardens, serene koi ponds, and cascading waterfalls, all set in a tranquil and Zen-like environment that would even impress Mr. Miyagi! And let’s talk about those fantastic photo opportunities, especially during cherry blossom season – pure magic. Plus, here’s a standout feature: they allow wedding receptions to keep the party going until 11 pm. That’s a definite bonus because there’s nothing worse than having to call it a night on the the festivities too early.

Amenities: ceremony area, indoor and outdoor event space

Guests Capacity:  Medium to Large (Up to 200)

Starting Cost:  $$ Affordable

New Children’s Museum

 

Ever dreamed of throwing a massive party with all your friends at the San Diego Zoo or Safari Park? Well, here’s your golden opportunity! Envision saying your vows against a  panoramic backdrop of giraffes and rhinos. And let’s not forget about the incredible photo ops during cocktail hour when they bring out the exotic animals. If you’re a fan of safari creatures or hold a special place in your heart for animal conservation, this venue deserves some serious consideration.

Just a heads up, everything is quite spread out, so make sure to allocate some extra time in your wedding timeline. Both you and your wedding party, not to mention your wedding photographer, will likely need carts to get around. But believe me, it’s all worth it for those epic bragging rights!

Amenities: ceremony area, indoor and covered outdoor event space

Guests Capacity: Up to 250

Starting Cost:  $$$ Moderate

SD Air & Space Museum

 

Located in Balboa Park, San Diego Air & Space Museum is hands down one of my all-time favorites for photographing weddings. I affectionately refer to it as the “giant softbox” because of that enormous atrium that covers the area where all the festivities happen. It bathes everything in a lovely, soft light, and the venue itself is wonderfully unique. During cocktail hour, your guests can explore the museum or channel their inner Maverick while riding flight simulators.  If you’re into space and aviation or if you’ve got a friendly competition going with your pals to find the most distinctive wedding venue, this could very well earn you the top prize.

Amenities: ceremony area, indoor event space

Guests Capacity: Medium to Large (300+)

Starting Cost: Contact venue for details

 

 

 

Best Winery Wedding Venues

 

Bernardo Winery

 

Nestled in the heart of North San Diego, Bernardo Winery stands as a testament to Southern California’s rich winemaking history, proudly holding the title of SoCal’s oldest winery. Its rustic charm welcomes couples of all wedding sizes, from intimate elopements to grand receptions.

Bernardo Winery offers a multitude of settings for your vows. Choose between the rustic pergola nestled among flourishing gardens, a larger pergola adorned with dazzling bistro lights, or the historic 130-year-old barrel room with impressive redwood vats.

You’ll also love that there are convenient bride and groom suites right on-site, giving you the perfect spaces for your pre-wedding preparations. Plus, the wide assortment of wines and craft beers guarantees your celebration will be stocked with exceptional libations. Let me not forget to mention they offer in-house catering services.

Besides all the fantastic perks of hosting your wedding at Bernardo Winery, my personal favorite is the countless photographic opportunities for your bride and groom portraits. It’s like a dream come true for photographers like me.

Want to learn more about why this is one of the best wedding spots in San Diego for photos?  Check it out here.

Amenities: ceremony area, indoor, outdoor and covered outdoor event space

Guests Capacity:  Medium to Large (Up to 300)

Starting Cost:  $$ Affordable

Lorimar Winery

 

Lorimar Winery, located approximately an hour’s drive from San Diego in the heart of Temecula’s wine country is a delightful treasure.  It offers a rustic and classic winery experience that embodies the region’s rich winemaking heritage. This venue is the epitome of secluded and intimate, providing couples with a serene backdrop for their special day.

As you step onto the grounds, you’ll be greeted by sweeping vineyard views set against the backdrop of Tuscan-style architecture. Surrounded by lush vineyards and fragrant citrus groves, with a picturesque view of Mt. Palomar, this winery offers an inviting atmosphere for your wedding.

The Vineyard lawn is a perfect canvas for your celebration, featuring winding vines, romantic bistro lighting, a charming stage, spacious dancefloor, cozy fireplace, and a well-stocked bar. Your ceremony can take place on the Ceremony lawn, framed by a gazebo and surrounded by vineyards, leading to the rustic Barrel Room.

Lorima Winery also understands the importance of preparation on your big day, offering comfortable and well-appointed getting ready rooms for both the bride and groom.

For those who can’t imagine their special day without their furry friends, Lorima Winery is pet-friendly, ensuring that every member of your family can be a part of the celebration. It’s a venue that combines the rustic charm of Temecula’s wine country with the sophistication of Tuscan-inspired architecture, creating an unforgettable setting for your wedding day.

Amenities: ceremony area, outdoor event space

Guests Capacity:  Medium to Large (Up to 200)

Starting Cost:  $$ Affordable

I hope this list has been a helpful starting point for planning your dream wedding. San Diego is renowned for its best wedding venues, and selecting the perfect location is just the beginning! Once you’ve selected your dream location, the next exciting chapter of your wedding journey can begin. Remember, your chosen venue sets the stage for the unforgettable moments that will be etched in your memories forever, and I’d love to help you capture every one of them through my lens. Feel free to contact me here to discuss how we can make your wedding photography truly memorable.

 

 

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